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Harder days to come

Rebecca Paxman

I have had quite a few people messaging me asking me how I live my life with all that I have been through. I always say, “Don’t get me wrong, it’s really hard to continue sometimes. I still have bad days.“ And that is the truth! I hope you all see that I am not perfect on Instagram and Facebook. I have worked hard to have the mental state that I have. I’m talking 10 days in a psych hospital, thousands of hours of therapy with several different therapist, and that includes group therapy. I’m on three different types of...


Hello again

Rebecca Paxman

Hello again

Well it’s been a long time since the last blog post, so I wanted to express a bit of my feelings. I hope you all know how important you are. Especially during the hard times. I know how hard that is to hear in dark times, it sounds like a broken record. But I truly mean it! It’s really hard coming forward about your abuse! I came forward almost a year ago... and I had the biggest panic attack sharing something so personal and scary. I don’t know why I did it over Instagram. I know my therapist suggested being...


I believed it was all my fault

Rebecca Paxman

I know a lot of you wonderful women are hitting my DMs. And I just want to say sorry for the scare but thank you for your kind words. I had a REALLY hard day yesterday. And I wanted to share with you the reality of what I have to deal with on the reg. It’s so freakin hard being so forward and honest. I get panic attacks and take things down so quickly. So much had popped up financially and then as well as trigger wise. Yesterday, I was blamed for my rape by someone close to my heart....


A not so positive blog post

Rebecca Paxman

First thing first, I promise I’m getting somewhere with this post so read everything. I really wanted this to be a fully positive blog post, but right now I’m anything but positive. I’m sick, tired, hungry, and poor. I’ve literally put everything I have into Havenly. But sometimes, today especially, I get down right discouraged. I try my hardest to put a positive face on and tell you guys how happy and strong I am. I know I’m not the only one with a mental illnesses. Truth is, I have depression, ptsd, and anxiety all rolled into one. I was...


Tracee Bracken - Utah

Rebecca Paxman

When I was 16 I fell in love with a boy. He meant everything to me. I gave him so much of me because he told me he felt this way about me too. I later found out that I meant very little to him. Early in our relationship he told me he had issues with pornography in the past. He told me the past was in the past and that he had overcome that. I would later find out the hard way that that wasn't true. I thought our relationship was so good. We went to dances, hung out...

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